{"id":282,"date":"2012-11-22T09:18:47","date_gmt":"2012-11-22T09:18:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.karasite.com\/blog\/?p=282"},"modified":"2012-11-22T09:18:47","modified_gmt":"2012-11-22T09:18:47","slug":"gencleri-suclamak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/2012\/11\/22\/gencleri-suclamak\/","title":{"rendered":"GEN\u00c7LER\u0130 SU\u00c7LAMAK"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n gen\u00e7lere, gen\u00e7lerin ya\u015fl\u0131lara ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fcklerinin doru\u011fa ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n, sonunda, gen\u00e7lere hakettiklerini s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in kan\u0131t biriktirmekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey yapmad\u0131klar\u0131 ve gen\u00e7lerin de, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi anlamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in bu f\u0131rsat\u0131 bekledikleri bir d\u00f6nemde, tek s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeyi ba\u015faram\u0131yor Bay Palomar. <!--more-->Bazan araya girmeyi denemeye kalk\u0131\u015fsa da, herkesin kendini, destekledi\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fe, onun ayd\u0131nlanmak amac\u0131yla denemekte oldu\u011fu \u015feye dikkat edemeyecek denli kapt\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>Olay, bir ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131klamaktan \u00e7ok, soru sormak istemesinde, oysa hi\u00e7 kimsenin, bir ba\u015fka s\u00f6ylemden geldikleri i\u00e7in, ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri ba\u015fka s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek zorunda b\u0131rakacak ve belki de g\u00fcvenceli yollar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde bilinmedik topraklarda bulunmay\u0131 gerektirecek sorulara yan\u0131t vermek i\u00e7in, kendi s\u00f6yleminin raylar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmak istemedi\u011fini anl\u0131yor. Ya da, sorular\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kendisine sormas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor; ama onun da, her soru de\u011fil, sadece kimi sorular ho\u015funa gidecek: S\u00f6yleyebilece\u011fini duyumsad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ama ancak biri s\u00f6ylemesini isteyecek olursa, s\u00f6yleyebilece\u011fi \u015feyleri s\u00f6yleyerek yan\u0131tlayabilece\u011fi sorular. Ne var ki, ona herhangi bir \u015fey sormak, hi\u00e7 kimsenin akl\u0131n\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7miyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, gen\u00e7lerle konu\u015fman\u0131n zorlu\u011funu kendi kafas\u0131nda evirip \u00e7evirmekle yetiniyor Bay Palomar.<\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor: &#8220;Zorluk, bizle onlar aras\u0131nda doldurulamaz bir \u00e7ukur olmas\u0131nda. Bizim ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla onlar\u0131nki aras\u0131nda bir\u015feyler oldu, deneyim s\u00fcreklili\u011fi kesintiye u\u011frad\u0131: Art\u0131k ortak ba\u015fvuru noktalar\u0131m\u0131z yok.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sonra \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor: &#8220;Hay\u0131r, zorluk, onlara bir k\u0131nama ya da bir ele\u015ftiri ya da bir \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131 ya da bir \u00f6neri y\u00f6neltmeye kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, benim de gen\u00e7li\u011fimde ayn\u0131 t\u00fcrden k\u0131namalarla, ele\u015ftirilerle, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131larla, \u00f6nerilerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve bunlar\u0131 dinlememi\u015f oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemden kaynaklan\u0131yor. Zaman farkl\u0131yd\u0131 ve bunun sonucu olarak davran\u0131\u015flarda, dilde, geleneklerde bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131l\u0131k vard\u0131, ama zihnimin o zamanki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma bi\u00e7imi, \u015fimdikinden \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 de\u011fildi. Bu nedenle, konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 bir yetkim yok.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bay Palomar, sorunu ele alman\u0131n bu iki bi\u00e7imi aras\u0131nda uzun s\u00fcre karars\u0131z kal\u0131yor. Sonra karar veriyor: &#8220;iki durum aras\u0131nda bir \u00e7eli\u015fki yok. Ku\u015faklar aras\u0131nda s\u00fcreklilik \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc, deneyimi aktarabilme olanaks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131, vaktiyle bizim i\u015fledi\u011fimiz hatalar\u0131 i\u015flemekten engellemeye ba\u011fl\u0131. \u0130ki ku\u015fak aras\u0131ndaki ger\u00e7ek uzakl\u0131k, ortak olarak sahip olduklar\u0131 ve biyolojik kal\u0131t\u0131m yoluyla aktar\u0131lan hayvan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi, ayn\u0131 deneyimlerin \u00e7evrimsel olarak yinelenmesini zorunlu k\u0131lan \u00f6\u011felerden kaynaklan\u0131yor; buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k onlarla bizim aram\u0131zdaki ger\u00e7ek ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6\u011feleri, her \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n kendi i\u00e7inde ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 tersinmez de\u011fi\u015fikliklerin sonucu, yani onlara aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z tarihsel kal\u0131ta, kimi kez bilin\u00e7siz bir bi\u00e7imde de olsa, sorumlusu oldu\u011fumuz bu ger\u00e7ek kal\u0131ta ba\u011fl\u0131. Bu nedenle, \u00f6\u011fretece\u011fimiz hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yok: Kendi deneyimimize \u00e7ok benzeyen bir \u015feyi etkileyemeyiz; damgam\u0131z\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan \u015feyde kendimizi tan\u0131may\u0131 bilemiyoruz.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Palomar, Can Yay\u0131nlar\u0131<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi : Rekin Teksoy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n gen\u00e7lere, gen\u00e7lerin ya\u015fl\u0131lara ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fcklerinin doru\u011fa ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n, sonunda, gen\u00e7lere hakettiklerini s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in kan\u0131t biriktirmekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey yapmad\u0131klar\u0131 ve gen\u00e7lerin de, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi anlamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in bu f\u0131rsat\u0131 bekledikleri bir d\u00f6nemde, tek s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeyi ba\u015faram\u0131yor Bay Palomar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-282","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-palomar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=282"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/282\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.karasite.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}